I'd like to toss my hat into this as well.
When James came to the board, I was very nice to the lad and tried to help him out. He continued to put his foot in his mouth, insult people left and right and not take ANY of our advice in the long term.
This ended up with even myself snapping back at him, when it became obvious (at least to me) that he seemed to be seeking attention with no intention of bettering himself.
Trust me, the irony of all this isn't lost on me and all that. But like others said, he ended up bringing this on himself even after we attempted to guide him.
It really sucks that members here are feeling like they can't log on because of this.. and I don't want that at all. But like Danny said, we're not bad people, but it's not our duty to accept everyone that comes out of the internet into this community. Some times you just don't fit.
I'm a HUGE believer in "be yourself". But hey, sometimes that doesn't work with a certain crowd, so you go find a new crowd where it does work.
*shrugs*
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